People Skills

It never ceases to amaze me that so many individuals lack people skills. I understand that we are all different, but PLEASE, choose your job accordingly. If interacting with people is not your thing, why would you choose a job that requires you to do so? Last week I had the pleasure of encountering several people who had definitely chosen the wrong line of work. My first encounter was at my daughter’s elementary school. Once a week I pick up my kindergartener from school so that we can make it to gymnastics on time. And once a week I get the pleasure of seeing one of the teachers from her school walk by me looking completely miserable. I have never seen this lady smile or even look directly at one of her students. I not only feel bad for her (since she obviously doesn’t enjoy her job), but I also feel bad for the children who must suffer along with her. As a former teacher, I know how important is to make a connection which each child. Without this connection the children will never be able to reach their full potential. (**People Skills to work on: Connecting, smiling, engaging Suggestion: Become a writer, Go into researching, Teach adults)

My second encounter of the week was with a nurse at the doctor’s office. Now I don’t about you, but I never enjoy going to the doctors. However, I know that I can always count on the nurses to make me feel comfortable and at ease. This particular office though, I have never had a pleasant nurse (But I love the doctor). After I was called back I was greeted with a blank stare and a well-defined frown. Although taken aback, I looked at her and said, “Good Morning!”. She somehow managed a small nod in response. After walking back she stood next to the scale and waited. She didn’t ask me to step on, just expected it. And from then on out, we went through the nurses procedures in silence. She somehow managed to do her entire job and only say one word, my name. (**People skills to work on: Polite conversation, smiling, connecting, eye contact, act welcoming    Suggestions: Go work in the hospital with unconscious patients, Go into research)

What unpleasant encounters have you had? What do you believe are good people skill qualities to possess? Grab a latte, put up your feet, and join the discussion!